Disney movies: they have put us in a wierd position, they have distorted our reality because we forget they are actually fiction.
Concerning marriage, what we are doing isn't working! Just look at the rate of divorces. So how is your marriage? I mean, lets be honest!
Concerning marriage, what we are doing isn't working! Just look at the rate of divorces. So how is your marriage? I mean, lets be honest!
To some, marriage seems to be like a prison than the paradise they were promised.
Marriage ought to come with fufilment, happiness never lonelyness.
Marriage ought to come with fufilment, happiness never lonelyness.
Marriage also comes with good and bad moments but most are in it for just the good that's why when the bad comes(cos it will come!) they say "no one told me, it feels so odd" because to them dating feels like a vacation while marriage feels like a job. Why? In order to enjoy more good, you have to be willing to "work" out the bad.
GOD is the secret to a happy marriage but currently we have exchanged GOD for lesser material things. Its like a husband trading his wife for a 2D image on a screen, hoping it will set us free and happy. Its like preferring the exhaust of an old molue to a tear nylon car. Later, we find out the fumes are choking because if our marriages rests on anything but Jesus, its resting on something completely broken.
Yet men(especially) continually sacrfice their marriage on the alter of sex and lust.
So men grow up, put down the controller, how about you lead her with grace instead of trying to control her.
Now, some of you might be judgemental due to the fact that I'm not married but, i'm a product of one non-existing, so don't tell me I don't understand, don't tell me I don't get it.
For the singles(ladies especially), become friends first before you ever become lovers.
GOD is the secret to a happy marriage but currently we have exchanged GOD for lesser material things. Its like a husband trading his wife for a 2D image on a screen, hoping it will set us free and happy. Its like preferring the exhaust of an old molue to a tear nylon car. Later, we find out the fumes are choking because if our marriages rests on anything but Jesus, its resting on something completely broken.
Yet men(especially) continually sacrfice their marriage on the alter of sex and lust.
So men grow up, put down the controller, how about you lead her with grace instead of trying to control her.
Now, some of you might be judgemental due to the fact that I'm not married but, i'm a product of one non-existing, so don't tell me I don't understand, don't tell me I don't get it.
For the singles(ladies especially), become friends first before you ever become lovers.
Pursue Jesus as your foundation before you get under the covers, because believe me, a strong friendship before marriage will make a good marriage after.
Marriage isn't just sex, its conversation and laughter, its dreaming big and moving forward together, its suppose to a happily ever after.
QupidKay
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